If there is one thing that I miss about Tumblr, it's that it felt like there was a lot more communication between people. Fellow kinksters seemed a lot more willing to reach out to each other, get to know each other, and have real conversations.
I made many friends on Tumblr. That has yet to happen here.
Here on BDSMLR, it just seems like most people are farming for likes or just to get their quick fix of porn. And that's okay, if that's what your here for. The site just doesn't yet seem to be at a place in it's design where it can really foster connections with people.
If you're reading this and you enjoy my writing (found under the "Writing" and "My Writing" tags below, feel free to send me a message. You will find a respectful, intelligent man invested in having real discussions and sharing ideas in a healthy and safe environment. I can't be the only person on the platform who wants that... can I?
(If you're feeling especially brave, message my darker blog blog @DarkerSleep. Warning, he's not quite as nice as I am...)